Friday, May 19, 2006
Baka a.k.a Paboya updates:
This is based on a real story.
It's been a while since i blogged. Either i don't have the time or i simply didn't want to blog. Well, now i've the time, let me depict this story to you. It's real, and i feel so sorry for the main character. Rest assured, she's much better now.
During my 11 weeks stay at Mary Gee Houses in Leicester, I've met and made many friends. Amongst my friends i have french girls, swedish, german, hungarian etc. This story is about my french friend, whose name i had better not reveal. You see, she was this nice, sociable and engaging 23 year old undergrad studying English here in the UK. What's sad is that she's in love with this guy, my other french friend's friend back in France. She's always had this thing for asian guys, and this french-cambodian guy she liked happen to like her as well - well her body only, unfortunately. My friend, being all devoted and in love with him, decided that if she couldn't get his heart, she would get his body instead. Hence, she had sex with him even though he made it clear he didn't love her.
Having sex with the person you love is very important. Well at least that's the case for most girls yea? When she confided in me, i felt so angry, not only at him, but at her for allowing her body to be used by him. No matter how much you love a man, there's a limit to that and what you should do to get him. And how shameless of the guy, to have the guts to tell my friend straight in the face that he prefered asian girls and and his ideal date would be to drive an asian girl out and have fun. I cannot imagine how hurt my french friend felt when she heard it.
I tried to convince her, i rally did, to stop having sex with him but she was so hopelessly in love with him. In the end i lost, and she was hurting her self emotionally whenever they had sex because he refused to kiss her. She had to beg him to kiss her but he wouldn't care. How can such a man exist? Such beast! Such atrocity! If i ever see him again i would throw him out of our dorm! (he's rather small, or at least smaller than me so it'll be a piece of cake to kick his ass outta our place ^_^)
Thank goodness my friend came to her senses one day. She decided to stop it all when she couldn't bear the pain anymore and wrote him a letter telling him all her feelings. You know what he replied? He said:
I was like WHAT THE F**K! at least be sorry for what you have done to her you piece of SH*T! He didn't feel guilty at all. Nope, not even say sorry. My friend suffered for the next 4 days crying in her room the entire time.
The week after. They went out again. All of them, together with the other 2 french girls, to a club where they danced and drank. Instead of being sensitive, he danced with this asian girl and made out with her in front of my friend. Still, he had the nerves to tell my other french friend that he actually prefered her other asian friend. At the end, because he couldn't get to the other asian girl, he settled for the one he had originally danced with. So when they were heading home, he asked her how was she gettin back. At this point of time, there was really no way but to get back via a cab right? The stupid asian girl (sorry i'm not trying to be racist but i'm asian as well. I'm just angry for my friend) said: "I don't know how to go home" so they ended up all taking a cab home, whispering sweet nothings and giggling and making out - all these in front of my friend sitting quietly behind them all the while.
It was not until this incident that happened when my friend realised how disgusted and revolted she was with him. She realised she was no longer in love with him and is put off by his actions. I think she deserves a better man. Well at least she ain't nobody's play toy anymore, that's what i'm concerned about. I hope everything from now on goes smoothly for her. Good luck my dear friend! ^_^
As for me, i have finally met the prince charming of my dorm. GOSH. tall, brown-haired, built, wears specs, looks intelligent, charming and there's just something that's so captivating about him! Sadly, he has a girlfriend. How do i know? he was with her when we went grocery shopping. Still i couldn't help staring at him and his back all the time! ARGH!!! another one taken AGAIN!! NANDE!!!???
Well hopefully this weekend's getaway to Edinburgh and bring me something else other than hopelessly stoning and wishing for another prince charming to pop by.
what a joke.
gtg, experiment calls.
amanda.
This is based on a real story.
It's been a while since i blogged. Either i don't have the time or i simply didn't want to blog. Well, now i've the time, let me depict this story to you. It's real, and i feel so sorry for the main character. Rest assured, she's much better now.
During my 11 weeks stay at Mary Gee Houses in Leicester, I've met and made many friends. Amongst my friends i have french girls, swedish, german, hungarian etc. This story is about my french friend, whose name i had better not reveal. You see, she was this nice, sociable and engaging 23 year old undergrad studying English here in the UK. What's sad is that she's in love with this guy, my other french friend's friend back in France. She's always had this thing for asian guys, and this french-cambodian guy she liked happen to like her as well - well her body only, unfortunately. My friend, being all devoted and in love with him, decided that if she couldn't get his heart, she would get his body instead. Hence, she had sex with him even though he made it clear he didn't love her.
Having sex with the person you love is very important. Well at least that's the case for most girls yea? When she confided in me, i felt so angry, not only at him, but at her for allowing her body to be used by him. No matter how much you love a man, there's a limit to that and what you should do to get him. And how shameless of the guy, to have the guts to tell my friend straight in the face that he prefered asian girls and and his ideal date would be to drive an asian girl out and have fun. I cannot imagine how hurt my french friend felt when she heard it.
I tried to convince her, i rally did, to stop having sex with him but she was so hopelessly in love with him. In the end i lost, and she was hurting her self emotionally whenever they had sex because he refused to kiss her. She had to beg him to kiss her but he wouldn't care. How can such a man exist? Such beast! Such atrocity! If i ever see him again i would throw him out of our dorm! (he's rather small, or at least smaller than me so it'll be a piece of cake to kick his ass outta our place ^_^)
Thank goodness my friend came to her senses one day. She decided to stop it all when she couldn't bear the pain anymore and wrote him a letter telling him all her feelings. You know what he replied? He said:
"Ok, if you feel that way, i have to make it clear to you again that i don't love you, but if you still want to have sex that's fine with me."
I was like WHAT THE F**K! at least be sorry for what you have done to her you piece of SH*T! He didn't feel guilty at all. Nope, not even say sorry. My friend suffered for the next 4 days crying in her room the entire time.
The week after. They went out again. All of them, together with the other 2 french girls, to a club where they danced and drank. Instead of being sensitive, he danced with this asian girl and made out with her in front of my friend. Still, he had the nerves to tell my other french friend that he actually prefered her other asian friend. At the end, because he couldn't get to the other asian girl, he settled for the one he had originally danced with. So when they were heading home, he asked her how was she gettin back. At this point of time, there was really no way but to get back via a cab right? The stupid asian girl (sorry i'm not trying to be racist but i'm asian as well. I'm just angry for my friend) said: "I don't know how to go home" so they ended up all taking a cab home, whispering sweet nothings and giggling and making out - all these in front of my friend sitting quietly behind them all the while.
It was not until this incident that happened when my friend realised how disgusted and revolted she was with him. She realised she was no longer in love with him and is put off by his actions. I think she deserves a better man. Well at least she ain't nobody's play toy anymore, that's what i'm concerned about. I hope everything from now on goes smoothly for her. Good luck my dear friend! ^_^
As for me, i have finally met the prince charming of my dorm. GOSH. tall, brown-haired, built, wears specs, looks intelligent, charming and there's just something that's so captivating about him! Sadly, he has a girlfriend. How do i know? he was with her when we went grocery shopping. Still i couldn't help staring at him and his back all the time! ARGH!!! another one taken AGAIN!! NANDE!!!???
Well hopefully this weekend's getaway to Edinburgh and bring me something else other than hopelessly stoning and wishing for another prince charming to pop by.
what a joke.
gtg, experiment calls.
amanda.
Vuitton pen, 5/19/2006 06:58:00 PM.
